The Japanese culture apparently is known for husbands who cheat on their wives. The only way a wife can receive a good financial payout in divorce proceedings is to catch their husband cheating with hard evidence. Abigail Haworth writes about this in Marie Claire.
So steps in Secret Shadow and their female breakup artists who make over $200,000 per year seducing married men. One seducer says "Women have had enough of being treated badly. It's the norm in Japan for husbands to cheat, so I don't feel bad about tricking them on behalf of their wives." For $2500 per week per client, she arranges a first encounter with the man and the sets up a second meeting where she suggests a visit to a bar. She says the husbands rarely refuse.
This business is booming in Japan. The seducer carries a remote controlled camera to record the encounters and 2 others tag along to snap photos of the chance meetings.
There must be other solutions to stop cheating. We live in a world in which cheating takes place. It is nothing new. It has happened since the beginning of time. Healthy marriages can exist, but it does take effort. It takes commitment to working through difficulties and not seeking an easy fix. Mature people realize that relationships struggle, and don't become trapped in following their "feelings." Feelings mislead us and lead us down paths we never would take when logic is clear.
If you are tempted, that is normal. What you do with the temptation is critical. When we give in and follow our feelings we find difficulties, sin and heartbreak. Seek help from a trusted friend or professional counselor if the challenge is severe. Pray for strength. Remind yourself of your commitment and who might become hurt by infidelity.
Seek to save your marriage at all costs!
That is crazy! I cannot believe that this is a job for woman to set up the men to prove that they're cheating. Yikes!
All I have to ask is: What is going on? AHHHH
Posted by: Brooke | 07/08/2010 at 12:43 PM